Tuesday, July 27, 2010

I need major legal advice!?

My husband and I have custody of my daughter from a previous relationship. The biological father has not seen her for 2 and a half years and has never contacted me wanting to see her. We are in the Army and will be getting out around this time next year and I am wondering if it is illegal to take her out of the state? He has no visitation or rights to her, he was paying child support but I have canceled due to his lack of seriousness and me getting tired of taking trips downtown to fight him for it. I need to know if he has any rights to whether or not he knows where she lives?? Thank you!I need major legal advice!?
If your husband adopted her as his own then he does have legal custody, therefore cancelling the child support payments from her biological dad. If he hasn't adopted her, only you have custody of her, not your husband, too.


Since there isno tie to her biological father it's fine to take her out of state. At least that's how it is in Ohio!I need major legal advice!?
Check the language in your divorce decree very well, and if it does not answer this question, contact the lawyer who did it to ask him or her. It's highly unlikely you are bound to keep her in the same state, especially since he has no visitation at all, but it's best to make sure. The original court usually retains jurisdiction for the purposes of resolving future issues, like him not paying support, or you denying him visitation, but in your case, that's not even an issue, so I can't see why moving would be a problem.
unless he relinquished his parental rights he will always have a right to know. You should consult an attorney
Law will vary from state to state; you don't need legal advice, you need an appointment to talk with CHildren's services.
Sorry, but you don't have the ability to cancel a child support order on your own. You can file a motion to raise it, lower it, or suspend it, but a judge has to grant it for it to be official. Therefore, the amount of his arrearage is adding up weekly. He probably owes you a bunch and can't file bankruptcy on that debt. Now, on to your question. You are the custodial parent. Unless your custody papers, and these would be the ones that set his visitation times, support, etc, say that you cannot take her out of state, of course you can take her with you. Given his complete lack of any type of responsiblity with respect to her, no judge in his or her right mind would prevent you, if you did have to get the order changed.
Go through Childrens Services. How did you ';cancel'; Child Support? If not through the courts, it is still in force. You really need an attorney as far as taking the child out of State. Too many variances from State to State on this law.
The first thing you need to explain is this statement: ';he was paying child support but I have canceled ...';





Did the COURT cancel the support or did you just stop pursuing it?





and in what state is the custody order established?





EDITED BASED ON ADDITIONAL INFORMATION:





Then child support has NOT been stopped. It will continue to amass arrears owed. That's far different than stopping the collection efforts.





On the second part of your situation, if he is paying support (or ordered to pay support) then the ONLY solution to your delemina is to file a petition to terminate his parental rights.





Just because he doesn't have custody or visitation doesn't mean he doesn't have parental rights.





What I would suggest is when your current husband is ready to adopt, you file the petition for adoption jointly with the termination of parental rights and a motion to set aside support arrears and any future claim to support.





Serve him the papers and see what happens.





EDITED FURTHER:





As I said, child support enforcement is an agency of the State. They collect support, they do not set it. That is ONLY the job of the court.





Therefore, before CSE can collect, there must be a child support order in place.





You need to find out specifically if there is an order in place and if so, how was it issued. I would hazzard to guess it was a default order based on a finding of paternity.





If so, then the court order still stands.





Regardless, your child has a legal father and that will require you to file a Termination of Parental Rights action against him.





You made a BIG mistake signing that document. DO NOT sign anything else unless it comes from the judge.
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