Need legal advice?

I cannot see my wife at this time do to verbal abuse there is a 5 yr stay away no i did not hit her my mouth got me arrested twice in front of the kids ok please do not judge me. Anyhow i am on probation and my lawyer says we are apealing the stay away order yes my wife loves and wants to be with me. I am getting help! However my probation officer came to see where I lived and i was not home that evening she accused me of being with my wife said if i am i will go to jail. My lawyer knows my wife and I are together and said she does have say to get this staya way lifted i love her I made a mistake what can i do?Need legal advice?
Given the experience based reasons for domestic violence laws, I see jail in your future.





those reasons invlude women being pressured to change their mind only to end up injured, raped, or worse dead. Same for the kids.





If it was truly a mistake, then you would have patience to let the legal process play out. Yet knowing full well that youcould be sent to jail, you flaunt yourself and can;t even hide your tracks from your PO.





What is going to happen the next time when the PO simply goes to your wifes house and finds you there, or if you are not there, arranges for her or the kids to testify that you were?Need legal advice?
Hold tight. You just have to wait and see.





Stay away from your wife. If she wants to talk to you let her be the instigator.





If she does, document it. How, when, where. All that stuff. If she contacts you a few times perhaps you can get it all lifted.





Good luck and keep working on improving yourself. Anger management. Show you're trying. Get library or regular books on anger management... then read and study them. Try them out as best you can. If you can talk about your anger problem with a good friend who is also a sensitive friend..





Good luck. Emotions are difficult to control.





PS. Find out why you react that way. Were you verbally abused a lot ???