Legal advice on Mentally abused!?

Hi, I am about to get divorced, I am a foreign spouse with a US citizen child, I was supposed to go holiday in my home country in october last year, but on December, my husband said he is filing for divorce. I had been depressed and mentally abused by my husbands with emails, text messages that i was the one to be blame because of my jealousy he said. We only been married over a year now. For 7 months, I have been completely unstable and doing my best trying to save my marriage, I believe that marriage is sacred, what problems you have you work it out.. I tried for many months ago talking to him about me going back to states and convince him that i will change for better as it is still young and fresh in our marriage. To cut it short, After 7 months had passed, he finally told me that he never had any feelings or love towards me even from the beginning of our relationship. Later, his friend had sent emails few to tell me to get life and told me that my husband never had any feelings for me from the beginning, it was just a pity... I had suffered tremendously. This is my first marriage, for my husband is the 3rd. He had it planned al the way, to leave me and my son back in my country way before.. right after, I managed to get some information on his computer about he was not being faithful to me even when we were married. There were alot of Porns site, chatting, and other stuff too which i did not see it before... My question is, should i wait till the divorce is final to file suit against him or should i do it as soon as possible to file suit against him and where can i do that? I am not a resident, as my husband did not apply any green card for me to be able to live and work in states, But i do know i can file for HAVA?? for Mentally abused protection?? Please advice... He has been misleading me into this marriage and make me feel everything was my fault, ..when after 7 months i had suffered, he told me and his friend too, plus with all the stuff as a proof he has not been honest to me.





Please help me//.Legal advice on Mentally abused!?
You need to discuss this with your lawyer immediately. Do not wait until after the divorce is final, as this information is important immediately. Get a new e-mail address. (psychologist)Legal advice on Mentally abused!?
it's seems like you're in a little bit of trouble, but idk. this email is too long to read.
He's obviously a jerk, and I'm sorry you met up with him. But let the divorce go through, and go on with your life. What kind of ';suit' do you think you can file against him, before or after the divorce? Make sure you have a lawyer for the divorce to look out for your interests. If he has any assets you might be able to get a share of them in the divorce settlement. An order of protection would just order him not to come near you - it doesn't sound like that's a problem.





Good luck.