was tricked into give my daughter up for adoption to my grandparents. I had no health ins. no job and the father was not around. So, my grandparents said they HAVE to adopt her to give her health ins. So for the best for my daughter i did that, not knowing the full reasoning of adoption, and how adopting worked.I was 17 at the time.
my daughter was 14 months old.
Well anyways, we went threw the adoption and all was good,no changes with anything, i took care of my daughter at my grandparents house, they helped out. Nothing wrong with a single parent needing some help with a child.
Well as time went on i got marrierd when my daughter was about 3, Moved out into my own apartment with my daughter and husband. Everything was wonderful.
Well my daughter was going to pre-k. It was so cute she had come home with her very 1st picture for school.
Well my grandmother had come over and started to scream at us.How could u not give this picture to me.and etc.
I was amazed. wow. So she took
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So..she took my daughter and some thing from my house of hers. so i called her and she said u can only she her when i tell you .
I called and found a lawyer, he put me in debt. but really didnt care. told him the situation. he said i have to listen to her.she was right.
What she says goes. So i did as she said. We swolled our pride and moved in a tiny trailer behind her house . During this time it was awful. i was to be called by my name and not mom, she was called mom and he was called dad, it was awful.but i did as i was told, i wanted to atleast see my daughter.
Well im gunna try and rap this story up, when my daughter was 8, she was going to school and something had happen in school, and she confronted my daughter about it, and long story short, she smacked my daughter in the face, i was so mad, i did call the cops.the cops came over and didnt do anything. the NEXT morning they packed up everything and moved to las vegas, which we was in TN at the time. Never gave me nothing to
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to contact them.
So i had contacted child services about them abusing my daughter, well thats when i found out they lived in vegas.child services out there confronted my daughter while she was in school.my grandparents found out and moved again.to buffalo,ny.
Well this story is getting long.im gunna try and get a hold of it, my daughter in now 11 , it has been 3 years since iver seen or heard anything. i am so lost i miss her so much. my grandfather is not really related to us and to make matters worse he does not have any children of his own , he took my child. my grandmother has 1 child which is my mom. and my mom will not speak to her till shes give my daughter back. and my grandparents dont care.
Here comes the best part, i have a myspace account,so i decied to look up my daughters name and i found her, wow.i found her, got to talk to her.it was great, well 2 days after that my grandmother found out and made her delete her myspace.i was crushed but thankful i got that little
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bit of time with her.
well a week went by and i looked her name up again.and she was back on there.so i tryed to add her and she is not allowed to approve me.
and that was 2 weeks ago.
so here i sit, waiting.. and confused, what do i do,,what can i do,,
i know this is a very long story, and you may not understand, but this is real.
Please any advice from lawyers, or serious people can reply.
and ty for your time on reading my story.Legal advice..?
From a lawyer. First, make it easy for her to find you on the Internet. Second, you've got to find a lawyer who will help you to get her back. In which State do you reside, I may be able to help.Legal advice..?
get some counseling and let your child grow up in a healthy environment. you'll be in one someday, but you need to start making better choices now.
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