Legal advice on marraige? nice advice only ?

i need some legal advice on marraige .


i got married july just gone . he was being a real nasty man to me playing with my mind and abstainibg sex etc making me think it was all my fault when i was just being the perfect housewife . cooking cleaning childcare . i told him to change or the wedding is off he changed for a while once we got married he got worse and worse again once i got pregnant which he wanted this child as well as he asked for a baby .


my flat is rented by the council in my name as he moved in with me and my 3 year old child (she was 1 at the time when he moved in)


all the stuff in my flat was bought before i met him too . now last night i gave him 4 month to change his ways ..


do you have any advice on what i can do legally ? as i know i have full rights to the flat and contents . any help and advise will be good also i live in ukLegal advice on marraige? nice advice only ?
take things easy, ensure that all your belongings will be yours then act accordingly.


don't discuss with him any financial issues now, later just give him a hint that he should move out and see his reaction...zLegal advice on marraige? nice advice only ?
He's abusive. Emotional abuse can be worst that physical. In regarding to legal rights, you should talk to an attorney ASAP. In regarding to handle out an abusive partner, you can learn tips and easy to follow directions in a book called Taking Power in an Abusive Relationship by Agata Campos. It really helped me to successful live abuse free.
I think four months is too long. He's done this before.


Give him maybe a week, and if he doesn't shape up, make him find somewhere else to stay while you work things out. Separation can be a powerful motivator.





Just a note - you didn't mention any violence, but my advice is different in that situation. It would be make a plan, doen't tell him, leave while he's gone, leave no trace...





hth
YOU WANT LEGAL ADVICE';for as a Husband / as a Friend. if you don't love him anymore' i mean really if you don't love him anymore. when you up to a point that you can't pretend anymore JUST KICK HIM OUT. enough of warnings.





good luck
first right off, get a good lawyer , they can make you or brake you, have all your ducks in a row, lay it all out on the line, go for child support, and first and foremost look out for you and your children.
the only legal advise i've got 4 you is plz consult a lawyer u need proffesional help @ d moment.
For any one thinking about marriage what the hell is the rush. Test drive for a bit what does it hurt.
The violence is coming girl. Kick him out now before he hurts you physically, or worse, your daughter!
My suggestion is to stop by a legal office and talking to them about what you need to do to cover your end if this gets ugly. Advice is usually free and in this case, because it sounds like it will be ugly it may be more important then ever. So if this is the direction you want to go in, ask the lawyer about all the steps you need to take prior to pulling the trigger which will keep you on track and safe.





Lastly, no flat is worth putting yourself at risk which includes your child, and if this person is someone who might get physical, have someone there with you when you do the deed. Remember, even good people make bad decisions in the heat of the moment so knowing your rights and what directions are available to you is only going to help you in the end. But don't spell it out like that to him. I can't say that we would like knowing you were shopping around for info on how to pull the plug.





Good luck and be safe.